Are we caught up in TIME now to do many things. Gone are those days when there used to be small talks with friends, lovely fights with siblings and so on right. There were times that we take things for granted. Imagine how things were when you were young, those days of playing on the streets, in the park and so on. With friends it was more fun and today it is becoming a big thing to call them and talk to them. You were enjoying those nice ice creams when you plunged into one cup of ice cream and dint bother about hygiene and shared the spoon with your friend.

Those long conversations on the phone made you wonder, why can’t this clock stop ticking and why the hell does it move so fast. Popcorns, long walks (I used to do this a lot in my university days and until recently), various discussions on who is the best cricketer and why Politics is so bad and on and on. Those midnight wishes.

Life has become so very different today right. We never step out to see what is real and what is not. And we feel that life is meaningless. Even today we don’t find time and curse and clock for moving fast and blame the time for not doing many things. Not even a call to a friend.

We did not realize how much love and care we were given by our parents and today many are busy showing the same to children yet not sure what they one is doing.

Life is the same, we are just different. We need to gain back the same joy and fun in our life. We need to detach ourselves from many a things and while still not forgetting our responsibilities. Not that responsibilities weren’t there before. When you were studying probably your highest responsibility was that to score well, to get a good job and so on. Those days these were big responsibilities for us. Today as I was travelling to work from home in Dubai, I was really wondering are these materialistic things giving any please and keep up with the fast paced world.

We just make world the way we want to. Please the very idea of this post is for people to stop giving those excuses, I don’t have time, I cannot do it and so. Please henceforth say “I don’t want to do it”. This would mean a lot. Things change yes, but what happens because of this change, oneself. We change and say the environment and situation force us to change. I don’t want to believe in that because the only person who can and who must control your life has to be you. Do you want someone else to control your life?

Priorities of life change and hence we accept the change and these so called priorities become the No. 1 excuse. Human kind is really capable of giving up and letting lots of excuses come in way. If you can stop this then your life will be better. Because when you say “I don’t have time”, “I cannot do it”, it means your pulling yourself down. You must respect your capabilities and henceforth when you say this please say “I don’t want to do this”. This at least will not pull you down and you still act with confidence. Excuses make you a victim and sometimes also makes you carry a guilt. When you I don’t want to, you act so much of conviction that it gives you courage and confidence that you are making the best choice!

Do your best to also enjoy those small things of life. Remember friends, call them wish them. I did a small piece of it today. Mailed some good old friends and asked them how they were. Remembered what people at home like, so that I can probably buy some of those for them. Makes me feel good for the moment atleast before I get into work.

Last Saturday the 14th of June, was indeed a very memorable day for all at OnlySuccess. The Live Phobia cure for the first time ever in Asia. It was a great experience for me.I still remember, when I just came back about 2 weeks back from Dubai, I was informed that I will be doing this great event! Now thats what I call as trust. No one asked me can I do it? Every one had a great belief that I can do it. With this great feeling I moved on to prepare for the event.The Hindu carried an article on this event.

Read the article hereI also did an interview with Hello FM on Friday morning Drive Show. Had a great time during that event. It was a new experience and the RJ was very energetic and that gave me a bigger push to do well. It was nice listening to songs, talking to the Producers and the RJ and I was asking them lots of questions. I was quite interested and was nosy .I had an event in the morning of Saturday on Emotional Mastery. So hardly any time to prepare for the evening event. Good the thing I did was to decide that I will not drive my car and had a Cab drive me to the venue. So could catch up some time for preparation and be ready for the evening.

We had a great crowd, that always mesmerizes me. Was fun and exciting. Then decided to pick the person for curing the Phobia and found this person “Rachna”. She was fun and had I had a great time on stage helping her come out of the Phobia of Snakes. Thanks Rachna for having the trust and belief in me. That made all the difference. And finally Mr. Bean my pet rat snake, came on to stage and was playing with Rachna. Great evening it was. Check all the pictures at LivePhobiaCure

It was indeed a great experience and my heartfelt thanks for every single person who attended the event. My Coaches and past participants of Born To Win. You guys as usual were awesome and gave me the positive vibration to help me to cure the Phobia. All my staff and management team at OnlySuccess. You were rocking. Thanks for the Great Support! A great experience.Today ‘The Hindu’ again carried a news on the event. Check it out here.One point that I wanted to drive in the minds of people which I will continue doing so is “Anything is Possible. If man was born with fear and if man was born to give up, we would not be walking”. Achieve the best in Life! Live with Passion

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Yesterday I had a great time with my nephew. This time I was away from him quite a long time. Almost 20 days because of quite a few training programs in Dubai. I met him and took him out for a pizza (I love when he dotes on his pizza, extra cheese that too… hehe.. i don’t dare touch it). After we headed back home we were laughing and jumping and were screaming.

All of a sudden he asked me “Mama, Why don’t you come to see me often these days” and he had a tear in his eye. I felt really bad and I said I was busy and was traveling. I am just doing this as a conversation read on..

Nephew (N): But why do you work so hard?

Me: Because only then can we all be happy and we can get whatever we want. I can get whatever you want

N: But I don’t want anything. I already have whatever I want. I only want to spend some more time with you because I love you so much

Me: Tej, I have to make OnlySuccess big to help lot of people and so thats why I am working hard but I promise that I shall spend more time with you whenever I can

Saying this we fixed a deal and this Monday I am taking him out for a picnic

So guys who are reading this who spend too less time with your family remember you need to balance it off. Its not that kids want many things from us. They want love and care and not the monetary things of life! Spend Quality time with your family and live a great life!

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